Comments on: Why do I attract the dregs of society? http://thedarkestevil.com/general/401-why-do-i-attract-the-dregs-of-society/ I tried sniffing Coke once, but the ice cubes got stuck in my nose. Sat, 22 Nov 2008 13:20:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Kyle http://thedarkestevil.com/general/401-why-do-i-attract-the-dregs-of-society/#comment-2773 Kyle Mon, 08 Jan 2007 13:24:04 +0000 http://thedarkestevil.com/general/401-why-do-i-attract-the-dregs-of-society/#comment-2773 Thanks dude ^_^ Thanks dude ^_^

]]> By: Andy http://thedarkestevil.com/general/401-why-do-i-attract-the-dregs-of-society/#comment-2767 Andy Mon, 08 Jan 2007 07:12:58 +0000 http://thedarkestevil.com/general/401-why-do-i-attract-the-dregs-of-society/#comment-2767 A frank post deserves a frank response. It's hard to find someone because it's when you're not looking, in my experience, that you stand a much better chance of meeting 'the one' or even anyone at all. Perhaps at times we give off desperate or lonely vibes when single that emanate out from us and attract opportunists and the unstable. When happy and content in ourselves, we give off an air of confidence and resilience and therefore become a much better bet for others who, like us, have the same feelings and desires. If you think you attract lame ducks, then a part of you is responsible for that - and I speak from experience. It took me years to realise I was dropping what was my innate standard in favour of people who would bolster me in one way or another. Once I stopped that, once I realised lame ducks have to help themselves, life got a whole lot better. So I guess the message is: patience, courage and work on yourself. Don't think about finding the other, simply make sure you socialise, relax, do what you have to do and see what happens. x A frank post deserves a frank response. It’s hard to find someone because it’s when you’re not looking, in my experience, that you stand a much better chance of meeting ‘the one’ or even anyone at all. Perhaps at times we give off desperate or lonely vibes when single that emanate out from us and attract opportunists and the unstable. When happy and content in ourselves, we give off an air of confidence and resilience and therefore become a much better bet for others who, like us, have the same feelings and desires.

If you think you attract lame ducks, then a part of you is responsible for that - and I speak from experience. It took me years to realise I was dropping what was my innate standard in favour of people who would bolster me in one way or another. Once I stopped that, once I realised lame ducks have to help themselves, life got a whole lot better.

So I guess the message is: patience, courage and work on yourself. Don’t think about finding the other, simply make sure you socialise, relax, do what you have to do and see what happens. x

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