You know, it is sad sometimes when some people cannot accept loss, instead they blame those the least responsible. It is even worse when they continue to stick to their lies, even when they are found out. They continue to weave a tapestry of lies that leads them to believe they are hearing things and to threaten innocents. It is truly a sad state of affairs when this happens.
Why can’t those people just rise up, accept that they were wrong in their accusations and move on in life? I have been wrongfully accused of things myself, numerous times. It always hurts me deeply, but if I let it affect my life, then would I really be a better person? Sometimes, you just have to remember that some people can’t accept the fact that they are wrong. And instead of admitting they are wrong, they lash out at innocents, accusing them of stealing things they probably lost, accusing them of actions that they cannot or will not pin on anyone else or even going as low as tricking themselves into believing that you are making loud noises when in fact, it was curteously silent.
In my house, I have always had to assume the role of peace keeper. This made me a target for many of the fights, usually involved in a great deal of them. When something went missing or if something was broken, whom would be blamed? The peacekeeper. The reason why is because I would try to show them that all humans are flawed and we all make mistakes. The only way to ever mature is to rise above such mistakes. My mother or father would usually start a fight, the other spouse would add a little more fuel to the fire and my sister would add a little more fuel to the fire as well.
However, I never let their lies affect me. I will never allow them to gain the victory over me. I am a highly intelligent person and I will not be bullied by my mother and father. But… what’s the use? They are never going to understand that their arguments and their accusations harm others. The little arguments they start completely depress and destroy people. It is truly sad how my parents were never loving nor nurturing.